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Sunday 12 May 2013

Sleeping with the enemy

I wrote this poem for a poetry competition where it won the first place. The topic of the poem is Marital Rape and is one of the subjects that is close to my heart. Sadly, in India, Marital Rape is still not considered to be a crime because of the strain it will supposedly cause to the system of 'marriage'. In fact, girls are advised to be married off to their rapists if they are raped before their marriage, as this system is considered so sacred that it even legitimizes the very act of Rape! 



This is the story of her,
She who walks amongst us,
She looks seemingly normal,
You don’t suspect anything’s wrong with her

But just give her another look,
She is more than your neighbour’s cook
She is unusually thin and frail,
Burned and bruised, her skin cold and pale
Her eyes are hollow, blank and void
Yet if you gaze a little closely, they look sad and recoiled.

Her soft sobs and weeps
Recount stories of those untold horrors and griefs
That await her at her own house,
In the form of her drunk, abusive and sadistic spouse

Every night she shudders
At the thought of going back home
Where night after night
She relives the worst nightmares of her life
It’s a terrifying thought she can’t shake
That this isn’t a dream from which she can wake
No means to run, no routes to escape

This is the story of her,
It may sound clichéd
Born in poverty, a burden on everyone’s head
What is her fault?
That she is a girl?
Or merely the fact that she was even born?

Disposed of by her parents
In a deal they called her “marriage”
Cursed to spend the rest of her life
Being abused and disparaged

Sleeping with the enemy
Night after night,
The torture and pain he inflicts on her
Gets drowned away in her cries

Nobody to help her;
It’s her duty after all,
To bear all the agony without a complaint
Because her husband is supposed to be her God

As the nation today fights tooth and nail
Protesting against the rape of all those unfortunate victims
Here she stands; this woman too
She has gone through the worst, and continues going through
She suffers no less than any other Nirbhaya, Damini or Gudiya*
Her anguish never ends,
Damned in a fate worse than death

Battered and worn,
She lights a candle too
She prays for the victim,
And for her own misfortune

Her fault was being born,
Born in a land
Where her femininity is not welcome
Where marriage is considered so sacred,
That it even legitimizes rape!




To read more about Marital Rape Laws in India, please read:


*Nirbhaya, Damini and Gudiya were the symbolic names given to the recent Rape Victims in India.







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